tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592839731639120187.post1323175656038020580..comments2023-07-04T19:32:36.368+08:00Comments on A Blissful Life: 4 days laterEmma Blisshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00929601119226414066noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592839731639120187.post-46199062889167716262012-10-08T01:06:38.222+08:002012-10-08T01:06:38.222+08:00What you're expressing sounds very understanda...What you're expressing sounds very understandable to me. You can't help but blame yourself & feel guilt. But try to remind yourself that it was NOT your fault or because of anything you did/didn't do or anything you thought or said. Be kind to yourself. Tiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17511522028218347560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592839731639120187.post-73976479469160729382012-10-07T15:32:06.461+08:002012-10-07T15:32:06.461+08:00Yeah, I know... and I know that there was nothing ...Yeah, I know... and I know that there was nothing I could have done - it's just that sometimes there is disparity between what I know and the thoughts that occupy my head!Emma Blisshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00929601119226414066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592839731639120187.post-13033897389236284642012-10-07T11:49:19.708+08:002012-10-07T11:49:19.708+08:00I feel like under the same circumstances I would b...I feel like under the same circumstances I would be having all your same feelings - wondering if at *our* age we're pushing our luck, etc. No matter what age or circumstance, though, all of this pregnancy/ labor stuff is way harder and more tenuous than anyone thinks who doesn't have first hand experience. Hang in there!wottadollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16527435736562324563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592839731639120187.post-36344965454296654552012-10-07T06:19:53.210+08:002012-10-07T06:19:53.210+08:00There's not much I can add to what Rachel has ...There's not much I can add to what Rachel has said as she is spot on, but let me tell you one thing: your blog, your rules. Easy as that. Blogging is very therapeutic. Lots of good wishes going your way Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02129038022641960439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7592839731639120187.post-83072536346819617652012-10-07T04:31:32.592+08:002012-10-07T04:31:32.592+08:00First off, this is YOUR blog, YOUR space, so do no...First off, this is YOUR blog, YOUR space, so do not apologise. Second off, this is probably part of the grieving process so you need to do this. Third off, you did NOTHING, you hear me, NOTHING to cause this, it wasn't anything you ate or did. Life sometimes deals us really hard hands and if there is one thing I learned as a doula, midwife and mother, it was that nature is a far, far stronger opponent or ally than we ever really give credit. We spend too much time trying to 'control' it when really, it controls us. Keep talking all you want. xxAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17686057978927588322noreply@blogger.com